Things aren’t always the way they seem. It’s funny how you can view something from one vantage point, but when you change positions things can look very different. Most of us make our decisions based on what we see on the outside rather than getting to know people for the things on the inside. We think because a person looks good on the outside that automatically makes them a good person. We tend to think people who act nice are always nice. That’s why we are so surprised when we find out negative things we didn’t know. Many times our opinion might have been based on superficial information not real facts. Sometimes we have to dig a little bit deeper to find out what is really underneath the surface. A surface decision can never substitute for a well thought out decision. Snap decisions may feel right at the time, but knowing all the facts before making a decision ensures long term satisfaction with the results. Don’t allow others to push you into things you don’t want to do. Make the best decision you can using all the information at your disposal. Make sure you adhere to sound advice if you want to make good decisions.  Free yourself, you’ll feel better!